If You Are Too Afraid to Fail, You Don't Deserve Success.

The originator of Hip Hop: DJ Thomas Edison!

So you have a big dream for your life; one that can not only set up your family lineage on Easy Street for the next 100 years, but possibly change the course of society as we know it! Quick question: Do you think it's going to be easy? Everyone wants success, luxury, or a lifestyle according to their preferences. However, the world is quite comfortable moving along as is - without your disrupting social idea, product, or business - and bending to your vainglorious will for a cushy life. What makes you different from everyone? If everyone wants success, what is the secret ingredient in terms of who attains success, and who remains a feckless dreamer? Obviously, God or fate is the #1 immutable reason for success. Yes, God or fate smiles on those who are born into positions of power, prestige, and wealth. Others are born with unfair talents, beauty, and intelligence that give them the inside track. This article doesn't apply to them. For the rest of us, one critical factor in achieving success is your relationship with failure. How the Fear of Failure Cripples Your Success Mindset Fear of failure is a significant hurdle for many dreamers, entrepreneurs, and job seekers. Avoiding failure can mean missing out on critical opportunities that could change your life. Remember, failure is not the end; it’s a stepping stone on your path to success. Let’s explore why embracing failure is crucial and how it can transform your journey.

You need 4 "Reality Checks" as to why you need to stop being afraid of failing in order to finally succeed.

Failure is a Learning Opportunity

We often associate failure with negative outcomes, but it can open doors to valuable lessons. A study from the University of Pennsylvania found that individuals who view failure as a learning opportunity are more successful.

Take the case of famed inventor Thomas Edison. Edison is renowned for his brilliance, as his inventions changed society for the better in immeasurable ways. He created the phonograph (think an old school record player), the light bulb, and the motion picture camera! Without Thomas Edison, we might not have recorded music, deejays, or even hip hop itself. Fun fact: Without Edison, there are no turntables without the phonograph, so he is the unlikely, unwitting founder of Hip Hop! Clearly, the light bulb and motion picture camera are modern marvels. So, how can us "digital pencil pushers" relate to a genius like Edison? Edison experienced failure at least 2,774 times before he landed on the working design of the electric lightbulb. Edison famously stated, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." This perspective emphasizes that failure is essential for learning.

For a practical example, if you stumble during a job interview, rather than wallowing in disappointment, analyze what went wrong. Did you struggle to answer a specific question? Did nervousness affect your performance? Recognizing these areas for improvement not only builds self-awareness but also enhances your preparedness for future interviews.

Failure Teaches You What Doesn’t Work

The path to success is seldom a straightforward journey. Research by the Harvard Business Review highlights that unsuccessful projects often offer deeper insights than successful ones. Reflecting on failures helps in making better decisions in the future.

The New Coke fiasco by Coca-Cola is a classic case. Released in the 1980s, it taught the company that consumers had a strong emotional attachment to the original formula. This failure led them to revert to the classic recipe, reinforcing their brand and boosting sales by 10% soon after.

Each failure serves as a benchmark to refine our methods. It’s important not just to focus on what works but also to note what doesn’t. This approach prepares you for more informed decision-making in the future.

Failure Makes You More Courageous

Confronting failure can feel scary, yet it can also build courage. A 2018 survey from the International Journal of Science and Research revealed that those who face their fears are more likely to thrive in the long run. Learning from failure cultivates resilience and perseverance.

Look at J.K. Rowling, the renowned author of the Harry Potter series. Before achieving global success, she faced multiple rejections from publishers. Instead of giving up, she used those setbacks to fuel her motivation.

In today’s entrepreneurial world, courage is a crucial asset. Those who take calculated risks and learn from their missteps are often the ones who discover innovative opportunities that others overlook. Embracing failure can lead to breakthroughs in creativity and problem-solving. Challenges foster your resilience, not sunny days, where the wind is at your back!

Trying Something New Will Lead to Mistakes

Venturing into new territories often leads to mistakes. According to Psychology Today, about 70% of new ventures fail within the first four years. Yet, these experiences foster growth. When you attempt something unfamiliar, every failure helps build the foundation for future success.

If you’re changing careers or launching a business, expect to encounter challenges. Each mistake provides critical lessons that enhance your skills for future endeavors. Instead of fearing these missteps, view them as essential experiences that enhance your flexibility and proficiency.

Remember, even the most successful individuals have faced failures. For instance, Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team. Oprah Winfrey was fired from her first job as a TV news anchor. They illustrate that setbacks can lead to remarkable comebacks.

The world’s best omelet starts out as a messy cracked egg.

Embracing the Journey Ahead

In a society that often idolizes success, it's vital to remember that failure is not your enemy; it’s your teacher. Embracing failure leads to invaluable lessons, sharpens your strategies, bolsters your courage, and sets the stage for long-lasting success.

Next time fear of failure holds you back, recall that true success is reserved for those who are unafraid to take risks. Lean into your uncertainties, accept the possibility of mistakes, and take action. The sweet taste of achievement often comes only after navigating through the challenges.

Success is not a destination for those hesitant to struggle. It favors those who confront failure directly, learn from failure, and make failure their ally - as they proceed inch-by-inch - on the long road of finding their Oz.

We love horizons because they symbolize endless possibilities on the journey ahead.